Media And Books

Media and Books

Dr. McMillan’s expertise extends beyond education and training into media and thought-provoking books and blogs which tackle domestic violence prevention, bias reduction, and relationship dynamics with clarity and compassion. Her engaging online show and regular contributions to media outlets amplify her mission to foster ethical, inclusive solutions. Explore her blogs offered here on this website for practical tools to create lasting impact in your life or organization. Her books are available on Amazon, or email if you have a large order or difficulty purchasing: drdinablog@gmail.com.

Media

TEDx Talk: Unmasking the Abuser

In this powerful TEDx talk, Dr. Dina McMillan, social psychologist and founder of Ethical Strategic Solutions, exposes the secret – and successful – manipulation tactics universally applied by abusers. Drawing on cutting-edge social psychological research, neuroscience and real-world insights, this popular talk reveals practical strategies to identify, confront, and avoid being drawn in by these powerful ploys.

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Heart & Mind: A weekly livestream with Dr. Dina McMillan

Join Dr. Dina McMillan for Heart & Mind, a dynamic weekly livestream tackling real-world challenges with practical, social psychology-driven solutions. From navigating family dynamics to boosting your personal and professional impact, this solution-focused show empowers viewers to foster healthier relationships and ethical environments.

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Unmasking the Abuser" Podcast

Dr. Dina McMillan, a leading social psychologist and founder of Ethical Strategic Solutions, unveils the devious psychology behind abusive behaviors in her riveting podcast, Unmasking the Abuser. This must-listen series explores the hidden dynamics of domestic abuse, offering clear, science-backed strategies to protect yourself, nurture healthier relationships, and promote ethical interactions in personal, romantic, and professional settings. Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms, each episode delivers powerful insights to inspire transformative change. Tune in to start your journey toward safety and empowerment.

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YouTube: Dr. Dina McMillan - @Drdina22

Dive into our YouTube channel for a wealth of content designed to empower and educate! From short, impactful videos offering practical tips to combat manipulative tactics to deep dives into real-world scenarios, our channel is your go-to resource for navigating complex relationship and social issues. Stay tuned-exciting online classes are coming soon, exclusively for our subscribers at various payment tiers, delivering even deeper strategies and guidance to help you flourish. Classes will be both personal and professional. Subscribe now and join our growing community of well-informed individuals committed to healthy, thriving connections!

Heart & Mind: A weekly livestream with Dr. Dina McMillan

Dr. Dina McMillan is a highly sought-after guest speaker, captivating audiences across media platforms and live events. As an accomplished social psychologist, she brings unparalleled insight and clarity to complex topics, effortlessly engaging hosts and attendees alike. In a world marked by deepening polarization and cultural divides, Dr. McMillan’s calm, evidence-based perspective on current events and practical solutions is in high demand. Her dynamic presence elevates discussions on audio podcasts, online shows, conferences, and public forums.

To invite Dr. McMillan to speak at your event or feature on your platform, please contact us.

Books

But He Says He Loves Me: How to Avoid Being Trapped in a Manipulative Relationship (paperback; 2007, Allen & Unwin Publishers)

In this groundbreaking book, Dr. Dina McMillan, social psychologist and founder of Ethical Strategic Solutions, exposes the chilling tactics of manipulative abusers. Through a unique dual narrative an unrepentant abuser’s guide to control juxtaposed with Dr. McMillan’s expert insights this book unveils the complex emotional traps used to ensnare victims. With clear, practical strategies, it empowers readers to recognize, resist, and break free from manipulative snares, seeking healthier relationships rooted in trust and respect.

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But He Says He Loves Me (with the broken glass heart, published by Ocean Reeve 2023)

In this groundbreaking audiobook, Dr. Dina McMillan, a renowned social psychologist and founder of Ethical Strategic Solutions, exposes the chilling tactics of manipulative abusers. Through a gripping dual narrative—voicing an unrepentant abuser’s guide to control alongside Dr. McMillan’s expert analysis, performed by herself and veteran actor Anthony Howell (Foyle’s War)—this book unveils the emotional traps that ensnare victims. With clear, practical strategies, it empowers listeners to recognize, resist, and break free from manipulation, fostering healthier relationships built on trust and respect.

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Fascination with the Devil: Why Women Love Emotionally Dangerous Men (2023, Ocean Reeve Publishing)

Why do women fall for emotionally unavailable men? Fascination with the Devil (2023, Ocean Reeve Publishing) uncovers the allure of ‘dangerous’ men and offers proven strategies to break the cycle. This empowering guide helps women transform their romantic choices, attract worthy partners, and build lasting, intimate relationships.

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Brief Overview of Abusers’ Strategies and Tactics (2024, Ocean Reeve Publishing)

Uncover the tactics of abusers with this powerful, hour-long eBook as it distills the most common ploys abusers use to lure romantic targets. The book exposes their manipulative strategies with sharp descriptions, and uses compelling graphics and memorable mnemonic rhymes to make it easier to apply in real-life situations. Drawn from the acclaimed Unmasking the Abuser program, this concise guide under 60 pages equips readers to recognize and resist manipulation. No excuses: arm yourself with knowledge today.

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But He Says He Loves Me: How to Avoid Being Trapped in a Manipulative Relationship (paperback; 2007, Allen & Unwin Publishers)

In this groundbreaking book, Dr. Dina McMillan exposes the chilling tactics of manipulative abusers. Through a unique dual narrative – an unrepentant abuser’s guide to control juxtaposed with Dr. McMillan’s expert insights – this book unveils the complex emotional traps used to ensnare victims. With clear, practical strategies, it empowers readers to recognize, resist, and break free from manipulative snares, seeking healthier relationships rooted in trust and respect.

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Published in Early 2026

Since its debut, But He Says He Loves Me has captivated readers with its unflinching insight into the minds of manipulative abusers, remaining a trailblazing resource in high demand. This new and expanded 2026 edition, informed by reader feedback and Dr. Dina McMillan’s acclaimed Unmasking the Abuser program, builds on the original’s legacy with fresh perspectives. It delves deeper into how modern cultural shifts amplify vulnerability to toxic tactics, offering powerful, practical strategies to empower readers personally and professionally to protect themselves and their loved ones. Contact us and let us know if you want to join our list for exclusive updates on this must-read release!

Get Involved

ethicalstrategicsolutions@gmail.com or drdinablog@gmail.com to learn more about Dr. McMillan’s books, online courses, and additional media appearances. You can also ask Dr. McMillan about participating on your show, podcast or at your conference.

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